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I Don’t Care that You Are Right! I Just Want You To Be HAPPY!

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“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; But often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us”
- Helen Keller

Continue from yesterday’s post.

So, where did I left off?

She was waiting for my answer in helping her to file the paper work.

I said, “I am sorry but this is something that I cannot help you with!” She looked right into my eyes, I can see her eyes starting to water.

She took a deep breath and asks, “Why? Do you not agree that I am right?”

I took a few second and I answered, “It is not about you being right anymore! I Don’t Care that You Are Right! I Just Want You To Be HAPPY! Four years you have been trapped. I know you will see clearly when you are willing to see it. You are super intelligent. I just cannot be a contributor to keep you in his power any longer!” She broke into treats and I held her in my arms. I hugged her…

She said, “If I can just file this paper work, I can move on. I need the money!” I could tell she is very disappointed with me. It is breaking my heart. I took another deep breath and I said, “I love you, and I will do everything in my power to help you move on, when you are willing to move forward. I can help you move out of that house, we can go travel, do things you used to love anything you want…”

She put her head down and said, “I understand… “

I said, “You owe yourself a life FREES Of Him! A life of Fun and happiness! You don’t need him anymore. You can do it; I will be with you, by your side. Just think about it?”

We said our Good Bye and I hope to hear from her soon… I hope I did the right thing?

Giovanna Garcia

Imperfect Action is better than No Action

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I want to Thank you to all the comments in this community and the Facebook community.

A lot of wisdoms were given here, and I like to recognize them all. However, I can only list so many of them. You may find more on my FaceBook wall. I listed some of my favorites.

A heart that is too stubborn to heal… until she stops blaming her ex, she would not be free and happy. - Shaw Funami from Fill the missing link.

Pain and hurt will happen; it’s just our human make up. But, you can brushed them off and heal much faster when you realize “YOU control your happiness”. - Hugo and Roxanne from Believe Achieve

The victim mentality… after all, things happened TO her. Until she realizes how much this is holding her back from happiness, she will stay there…and grow more angry, vengeful, and unhappy. - Scott from A Dad first

A better question for her to ask might be, “What would I learn from going ahead with this litigation? What would be the possible outcomes (not just getting back money, but in her relationship—to whatever degree—with her ex)?” If she *really* looks at that she might find she no longer needs to go through with it. - Karen Murphy from Polarisrising

The time and effort people put into breaking the marriage vs. the effort they put into keeping their marriage… - Jacques violette from Creating Wealth That Lasts

A toast to celebrate… a new beginning! Until she realizes, not to be stubborn, and keep on blaming her ex–she’ll never be happy and will never truly feel free. - Nancy M Meer

Vengeance in any way, shape or form is very destructive; more so to the person who seeks it!!! - Red Seagull Hellas Lilliangoodness

Watch your thoughts - they become your words. Watch your words - they become your actions. Watch your actions - they become your habits. Watch your habits - they become your character. Watch your character - it becomes your destiny. - Eddie Vasquez